Omg this is terrible. I completely get it and I have no answers for you Alloneword other than what the other member have already written. I will say though I think it is somewhat unfair to use Jamer's website as a platform for your statement. It is unfair on Jamer to have this burden if you decide to continue with this. Please think about others too, this is a tragic position to be in without doubt but this is not the solution.
Lanzarote is a nice place, I went there 3 years ago but want to go back, the only other place I have been is Ibiza but that was with a load of mates, still a nice place, saw lots of families and kids there.
I am not going to get into this argument but in my opinion most of the people with disabled badges are hardly disabled. Secondly, if they made the parking spaces sensible sizes then we would all be happy (they are clearly way too small) but I would be parking in either Mother & Baby or Disabled spaces too if I had a 4x4 or expensive vehicle as in Jamer's case as some people could not care less what damage the cause.