Please do come in as far as you are allowed to. Have a look at one of the longest standing sites, supported by some of the longest standing members of any other site that you've probably ever visited.
Yes, there are one or two "hoops" to clearly jump through. Yes, we need to know that you are OK to be here and we also need to hear from you over time before you can be allowed into our "elsewheres".
We are a safe site and we are a Family.... a safe and sound and fruitful Family.